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Who Not How
Dan Sullivan & Benjamin Hardy (2020)
What makes it unique: It turns delegation into a single habit-changing question — "who, not how" — and frames bringing in the right people as the primary engine of growth and freedom.
Summary
Who Not How argues that the biggest constraint on growth is a simple mental habit: when we face a goal, we instinctively ask "How do I do this?" Dan Sullivan and Benjamin Hardy urge a different first question — "Who can do this for me?" By finding the right person (or team) to own a result, you free your time, energy and focus for the things only you can do, and you achieve far more than willpower and self-reliance ever allow.
The book reframes delegation not as offloading tasks but as pursuing bigger goals through collaboration, and it dismantles the perfectionism and control that keep founders stuck. For B2B owners and marketers, the lesson is direct: hiring specialists, agencies or platforms to own outcomes — rather than learning every channel yourself — is how you scale. It is the mindset behind letting a system like this portal (and the right people around it) handle the "how" while you set direction.
Ideas worth exploring
- Replace "How do I do this?" with "Who can do this for me?"
- Your time, not money, is the truly scarce resource — protect it by finding Whos.
- Perfectionism and control are disguised procrastination; results come through others.
- Every new "Who" expands what is possible beyond your personal capacity.
- Focus your own effort only where your unique ability creates the most value.
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